We all got a body armor to protect
us from the harshness of reality. The times when we take off our armor are when
we are open, intimate, and sharing our secrets. There are some people who
forgot to remove their armor once in a while and become a hardened and selfish
person.
I believe in taking off my
bulletproof vest most of the time. I only put it on when I feel the need for my
own personal protection. What kind of protection? Psychological and mental
protection from others. There is goodness in everyone, but people forget it
because of the armor. Some people are afraid to take off the armor once they
have put it on. They feel safe and secure, but the emotions and caring nature
are blocked.
People need to know that the armor
is there for us when we need it to protect our dignity, self-esteem, and self
respect. It is not to be used daily as it is our own defensive measures.
Sometimes our own defensive measures become offensive without us even knowing
it. That is what I believe to be an issue when you deal with hardened and
offensive person in your life. Although reality is harsh, don’t block out all the
emotions that make you human.
As you probably noticed up till now,
this memoir is written with my armor off. I intend to keep it that way so I can
keep it true while not being judgmental of others. Even though I may be upset
with a certain person, I believe I should be calm and understanding and tell my
stories.
I personally think that’s harder to
crack open a guy’s armor than it is for girls. Perhaps girls don’t wear it most
of the time. In our society, guys have to be tough and dominant. We would be
laughed at if we were weak or emotional. I think it should not be that way just
because of gender differences. Just because of one’s gender, it doesn’t mean we
can fire more shots into their armor. Sometimes the shots penetrate the armor
and you hurt the person without even knowing it.
One thing for sure when putting on
the body armor, put it on when you are getting harassed or abused. Put it on
when you are taking a stand for what you believe in. Put it on for what’s
right. Never put it on so that you can be powerful just to harm others and
become less human.
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